Looking Ahead to Your Teenage Years {Halloween}

by katherine on November 3, 2011

Dear Rylee,

We had so much fun the other night. It was so amazing to watch you be so brave and walk up the steps of those houses that were dimly lit with eerie music playing. You have grown so much since last year yet; you are still filled with the wonder of it all and still so innocent.

There will come a time when you’ll want to venture out and trick-or-treat with your friends. Believe me when I say that I’m ok with that…but convincing your father may be a different story. I’m guessing that day will come sooner than we’d like, but when it does, I want you to remember a few things…

If you’re going to go out trick-or-treating, no matter how old you are, you will be dressing up. End of story. It doesn’t have to be some big fancy, expensive costume, but seriously…put a little bit of effort into it.

Contrary to popular belief, Halloween is not just an excuse for girls to dress likes hoochies and get away with it. Seriously. Plus, it’s the end of October…it’s going to be cold out…bring a sweater! If you must, at least save that for your college years when you’re over 18 and out of the house.

If you’re going to go out trick-or-treating, you better not think you’re “too cool” to actually say “trick-or-treat”. None of this knocking on the door and just holding out your bag business…that’s not gonna fly.

After you knock on the door, in your costume, say “trick-or-treat” and get your candy? The words “thank you” {or some variation of} better come out of your mouth. I don’t care how much of a hurry you’re in to get to the next house, those people didn’t have to spend who-knows-how-much-money to buy candy for total strangers and you need to appreciate it.

Be mindful of the little kids, because it’s really for them, not you. Be mindful of the adults taking the little kids around from house to house. If they’re trying to drive down the road, just get out of the way, you are not “holier than though” or owed anything. Be respectful. Watch your language.

I sum all this up with 3 words: don’t be an asshole. 

Hugs & Kisses,

Mama

P.S. These words of wisdom, go right along with the first “looking ahead to your teenage years” letter I wrote you. Trust me, as you grow, there will be more.

{ 4 comments… read them below or add one }

1 Kelli November 3, 2011 at 1:51 pm

I love these letters you write to Ry. They are very cool and she will treasure them one day.

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2 Life With Ladies November 4, 2011 at 11:16 am

Oh bless your awesome Momma heart!
I would love to write that statement on my wall (but fear the wrath of Nannas & the religious): don't be an asshole!

Awesome!

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3 Lilmissrysmama November 4, 2011 at 12:37 pm

Hahahah wrath of the nannas cracks me up! I totally waver back and forth between caring and not. :)

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4 Chelsea November 4, 2011 at 1:28 pm

All I gotta say is, AMEN. I can't stand when "kids" come to our house not dressed up and expect us to give them candy. We turned out the light and stopped accepting trick or treaters once we knew all the littles in our neighborhood stopped by because all that were left wandering around were the high school kids. And they are NOT stealing our candy… the leftovers are mine!

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