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Let’s Talk Car Seat Safety

There’s nothing like bringing home a fresh baked baby to bring car seat safety to the top of your mind!

Car seat installation can be completely intimidating to some while others think it’s no big deal and end up missing some major safety points. Either way? Car seat safety is a HUGE deal to me, so I wanted to shares some tips and info about car seat safety that I think EVERYONE needs to know.

First of all, bottom line is this…if there is EVER any question about whether or not the car seat is installed correctly and or the physical integrity of the seat? DO NOT USE IT! We’re talking about the safety of your child…why risk it!?

Now, lucky for you, I happen to personally know a certified car seat safety inspector! {he’s a cop too, so don’t screw with me, got it!?} I asked what the most common mistakes he sees when inspecting car seats. Here’s what he had to say…”Most common mistake I see is probably improper securement to the vehicle (usually too loose or using the wrong straps in the wrong place.) The seat should have <1″ sideways movement @ the belt path, using normal hand pressure. A close 2nd place is not cinching the kidlets in tight enough. You should be unable to pinch the shoulder strap between your thumb and finger.

He also said that you should read your instruction manual. And while my first thought to that was DUH! (I read mine cover to cover), it seriously makes me wonder how many people just toss it to the side when installing their child’s seat. Common sense? Not always so common any more.

Most CAR SEATS EXPIRE 5 years after their manufacturer date (different from the purchase date!) This was something I recently learned…and to be honest, was shocked when I heard it. Once I thought about it though, it makes sense. First of all, safety standards change. Second, after time, materials start to break down. Even if the seat looks fine, bottom line is you just don’t know. Our infant carrier doesn’t techinically expire until September, but we figured, It’s been stored in the rafters of the garage for the last 3+ years so why risk it? and bought a brand new one for Sister.

Curious to know more? The location of the expiration date on your car seat will vary by manufacturer and seat type, but look for a sticker like this…

{I took this one from Rylee’s Britax Marathon seat. It was super easy to find, right under the seat cover on the outside. On our new infant carrier, the actual expiration date (not the manufacturer’s date) is physically molded into the seat.}

Educate yourself on EXTENDED REAR FACING! It’s now recommended that instead of turning kiddos forward facing the minute they turn 1 and/or 20 lbs, to keep them rear-facing up to 3 years and 30 pounds. ERF was just becoming a recommended “thing” when Rylee turned 1. Her pediatrician just sort of breezed over it and at the time of her 1 year well-check, I had already moved her to forward facing. Looking back? Why was I in such a hurry!? For Baby Sister, we will most definitely practice ERF. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics website, “A rear-facing child safety seat does a better job of supporting the head, neck and spine of infants and toddlers in a crash, because it distributes the force of the collision over the entire body”

If your car has the hardware, use the LATCH system! Seat belt types can vary from vehicle to vehicle. Instead of trying to figure out whether or not your car has a passive lap belt, a lap belt with emergency locking retractors, lap belts with automatic locking retractors or a combo lap/shoulder belt with locking latch plate? And wait, where I am supposed to install the Locking Clip on the seat belt? Just use the LATCH system. The LATCH system also makes it much easier to get the car seat cinched down tight enough to move less than the 1″ side-to-side as recommended.

ALWAYS replace a car seat after any kind of car accident! Even if you can’t physically see anything wrong with it.

NEVER use a car seat if it has damaged or missing parts.

NEVER buy a used car seat without knowing the history of the seat! What if it’s been in an accident!?

Improperly installed car seats can cause injury even if you’re not in an accident! If the seat is installed incorrectly, sudden braking and sharp turns could injure your child.

NEVER put an infant carrier on a shopping cart! Seriously…it’s NOT made for that and a bump could send that seat (with your baby in it!) flying! Don’t believe me? Less than a year ago, a mother lost her 3 month old son due to an accident like this.

If you’re ever unsure about whether or not your car seat is installed correctly, GET IT INSPECTED! Most fire stations and police officers are certified car seat safety inspectors. To find a local inspection station in your area, you can search the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration’s website HERE.

Speaking of the NHTSA, they’ve developed an entire website that is a fantastic resource for all things car seat safety (and more!). They have info on child safety laws broken down by state. They’ve got installation videos to view. Pregnant? Yep, they’ve got tips for car safety for expecting moms too!

Anything I missed? Have questions? Feel free to leave me a comment!

Disclosure: I was selected for participation in the TWIN community through a program with Clever Girls Collective. I did not receive any compensation for writing this post, or payment in exchange for participating. The opinions expressed herein are mine, and do not reflect the views of the Toyota.

Life. Lately.

I’m sitting here with the sounds of Sid the Science Kid and the steady drone of the baby swing in the background. I’ve got a snuggly 4 year old keeping my left side warm. A towel that’s been wrapped in my hair for about an hour too long.

And a heart that is overflowing.

These last few days home have all been a blur. As with any brand new baby, there’s been a flurry of feedings and diaper changes. Semi-sleepless nights and naps in the day. Between all that, I’m trying to balance my time with Rylee, making sure she knows I still love her as much as always. We’ve read books together, made a couple of dinners together. We have plans to polish our toe nails during a Baby Sister naptime this week.

After things settle down a bit/we work into our routine as a family of four, I’ll share Reese’s birth story and some other fun stuff.

For now, I’ll leave you with these…

P.S. I haven’t been updating facebook as much lately, but you can follow me on instagram for the latest and greatest pics of my girls…MY GIRLS! @LilMissRysMama

P.P.S. I started this post at about 10 AM…it’s now almost 1 PM…and this is my new reality.

40 Week Re-Cap

Well…mostly 40 weeks, anyway.

I thought it’d be fun to put all the belly pics together to see the progress of Baby Sister.

And even more fun…the most recent 39 week belly pic…I’m wearing the same shirt I wore in my 8 week shot.

That’s a whole lotta stretch, folks!

Any time now, Baby Sister!

Linking Up with Baby Baby Lemon for Wordless Wednesday!

The Calm Before the Storm

After last week’s appointment (and Rylee’s Saturday prediction) I was sure we’d be home from the hospital with Baby Sister here by now!

But alas…it’s Monday afternoon and I am still very pregnant. Very.

It’s like this crazy waiting game now. Have I ever mentioned how much I hate anticipation? I’m a planner. So this whole “not quite knowing when it’s going to happen, but it could be any day” thing? Pretty much just sucks.

I left work on Friday in a really good place. Ducks were in a row. I nearly started crying last night when I was setting my alarm last night for work today.

We made the most of our still-a-family-of-three weekend.

Saturday we headed to the movie theater to see Ice Age {whatever number they’re on} in 3D. For free, to boot! I guess every year our financial planner does some family type thing and this year was a free private viewing of Ice Age in 3D, complete with free snacks! So, yea, at 10 AM we were packed in a theater with a bunch of other people and their kids, stocked up on popcorn and candy and soda to watch our first 3D movie. Fun stuff! After the movie, we headed to Red Robin for lunch, which in retrospect, what pretty much a waste of a perfectly good gift card because we were so full from the popcorn we hardly ate our lunches. Oh well. After that was home for naps! Well, Ry & I napped. Andy worked outside…of course. After naps I tried walking the baby out of me…no such luck.

Sunday we had a leisurely morning of cartoons and french toast for breakfast. Then we packed up a picnic and headed to the park across from the grocery store. Ate, played then hit up the store for a few things then headed home for naps again! And yes, again Ry & I napped, Andy worked outside. After Rylee & I woke up we hung out outside with Andy.

Apparently when you’re busy doing family things and napping and not around social media or your phone, friends and family start to wonder if you’re in labor… Weird, huh?

Mostly? It’s just like this… I’m tired, even though I’m sleeping well. My hips hurt. My lower back aches. And pretty much every single thing I’ve eaten since Friday has given me heartburn…I have never had heartburn before. It sucks. I am currently alternating between being very ready to be done and not able to fathom what life will be like with two kids. TWO! KIDS! Rylee snuggle to the MAX right now. And then throw into the mix my crazy hormones with the realization of I’m probably never going to be pregnant again so this will be the last time I feel baby kicks in my belly.

Yea, I’m pretty much a hot mess.

I promise, when things start happening, you will know.

Not in a gross, weird over-sharing kind of way…but more like a hey we’re on our way to the hospital! kind of way.

But for now? We just wait some more…

Here We Go Again: Less than 2 weeks!

How far along? 38, 3 days
Total weight gain/loss: 33 lbs
Stretch marks? Nothing new.
Maternity Clothes: Neither of the shirts shown are maternity. Though I give no credit to the size of my belly.
Sleep: Been consistent on the up only once to pee thing. There’s been a couple of nights I’ve straight up passed out in the living room before 8:30…it’s like my first trimester all over again!
Best moment this week: getting that much closer to our due date!
Movement: Less movements. She’s running out of room.
Gender: Girl
Labor Signs: There’s for sure “stuff” going on…lots of cramping, more B-Hicks contractions here and there. Official state of the cervix: 2 cm dilated and 90% effaced. BOOM! I’d say baby watch is officially on.
Food Cravings: Nothing, but my general rule these days is “the more food the better”.
Belly Button in or out? Outtie.
What I miss: sleeping on my stomach. Lying down without pain. Walking without pain.
What I am looking forward to: No more un-called-for foot sweat. And a mojito.
Other Goodness: Rylee told me this morning she thinks baby sister is coming tomorrow. So I guess we’ll see if she’s right! Also? FINGERS CROSSED!